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Originally Posted by bobby234
about 8 months ago
a friend of mine introduced me to a good friend of his that was visiting town. He said that she is great and that I should try and "make a move" on her for fun or for something more serious if I would like that. My first response was: "Sounds cool, is she easy?" , to that he replied that "no but if she likes you who knows".
now
I think I'm also a bit disturbed by the fact that my friend is kind of a player and treats women like ****.
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Bobby - what happened in those 8 months that changed your set of mind so drastically?
8 months ago, you were TRUSTING your friend's opinion on whether the girl was EASY. Moreover, you inquired on your own - he did not volunteer information.
And now you say that he treated her like **** by sleeping with her from time to time. But when you asked about whether she was easy, you were, kind of, also thinking of potentially sleeping with her (unless the meaning of the word combination "an easy girl" is hidden from me). So, it seems that when she has sex with you, it is a good thing, but when she had sex with him, it was, kind of, a bad thing. At least for her. Because you call him a player. But when you asked if she was easy, weren't you considering being what you now call a player at least a bit? It seems that you are applying a different standard to your friend now that you are with this girl. It seems that had you known back then about their sleeping together, you would have just accepted it a a neutral bit of information, without calling him a player. So something has happened that has led you to change your attitude. I wonder what it was.