I'm emotionally aggressive & abusive towards by 7 year old daughter. Shes a wonderful child, but refuses to do anything herself - I even have to feed her, I get worked up mostly because of this & say all sorts of mean & nasty things to her like I wish she wasn't born. I hate myself for this & kiss & make up, but I have to stop this cycle. What do I do? My husband doesn't believe in therapy/anything...