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Originally Posted by Chuck74
Well, we got home, and my daughter had to use the bathroom really bad. I knew what she had to do and knew it would be a little bit, and I said that to my hub. He didn't give her but five minutes and knocked on the door and said hurry up, I need to use the bathroom too. I was so pissed. I actually had to scold him like a kid! I said if that was you in the bathroom she would have had to wait, and you can wait to. Be patient and give her a chance to use the bathroom. So he sat down on the stairs next to the bathroom and pouted! April came out very shortly after that, and I apologized to her for him, and he darted in the bathroom without a second glance and not a peep out of him. She knows he's different. She is too with her PDD, which I think makes her more understanding than most, but what he did was totally uncalled for, but he sees nothing wrong with it and won't apologize! UGH!
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Let me make sure I understand what happened fully.
She is a child. She has PDD. She understands that he is different. She is actually more understanding than most.
He is an adult. Has has Asperger's, but he does not see that he did something wrong, won't apologize even though you modeled apologizing in front of him, and, he pouted. And, in addition, he does not understand that adults' capacity to hold urine in the bladder is larger than children's.
If that is true, then she is emotionally older (more mature) than he is.