An old t had many things in her office to play with/hold, and offered one when she saw me looking at it. One time she also have me a little title statue to "babysit" for her while she was away on vacation. My most recent t had nothing personal in the office, but it was a communal office for interns. This new t also does a lot of therapy with kids, so she has a bunch of stuff around. I could probably hold something in There if I asked. I only take Beary with me when I'm in major crisis... old old t knew this. Recently old t found out recently. This new t i have only seen twice, so she has not had a chance to figure it out yet... I'm not sure I have enough of a relationship with her yet to feel connection through her things... but I know it helped a lot with old old t.