I have a friend who is gay. He mentioned that it would have been nice if we could look at gay porn together, but it was too obvious that I didn't get the appeal. It halfway crossed my mind to suggest that bisexual material was something we could both get behind. In a manner of speaking.

In general in hetero pornography, it seems like the standards are really lax for the men. A lot of them are older and fatter than the female stars of the show. They are almost treated like inter-changeable tools. So it makes sense to look at the women more. Even for women. That's where your attention is being directed.