thx growlycat i already told him briefly about the dad transference last week and so him and i and my individual t are supp0se to meet next week at my individual session my individual t told me to tell her if other feelings came up but i am ashamed to tell her about these brief romantic feelings he doesnt know either omg this is getting more confusing by the minute and you know i dont want to be dismissed out of the ptsd group therapists can be touchy about transference