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Originally Posted by amandalouise
my point was to show that in ....some client -therapist relationships and in ...some ... therapy sessions what happened is appropriate and in others it isnt. it all depends upon the person who's therapy session it is and their own relationship with their therapist....
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Look, I don't want to upset you or attack your therapist, I'm not in your life and I don't know what's best for you. But your post did really bother me, and I felt the need to say something.
If your T's approach works for you, great. But if I told MY therapist I needed a few minutes before I could tell him what was going on, he wouldn't go and make phone calls. He would sit with me and wait until I was ready to talk. Because it's my session and I'm paying him to be there with me, even if that means sitting and waiting for me to speak. If he got up and made calls, it would be game over for me.
Clearly you need different things, and good luck to you. But I find your T's approach surprising, to say the least, and I don't think it's very good practice, if I'm honest.