We all have restrictions that are placed upon us. I don't think anyone would disagree. Yet, why is it we insist upon perpetuating the idea that "the world is your oyster" or "whatever you believe, you can become"? Really? Can a man of 6 foot 2 inches become a jockey because he really really wants to? How about a person a person with Down's Syndrome who wants to compete in the regular Olympics not the Special Olympics? Why do we insist on deluding ourselves and our children by repeating such nonsense? Wouldn't it be far better to encourage ambitions but add a touch of realism instead of setting ourselves up for disappointment (and maybe even depression) when the realization hits that we can't reach these pie-in-the-sky dreams that we've been led to believe are within reach?
Or, how about this one-- "Just find your passion". Well, it seems to me that if you have a passion for something you wouldn't have to spend time trying to find it. It would make itself known to you. After all, doesn't passion move you from inside? Besides, what's wrong with not having a passion? What's wrong with wanting to live simply seeing what each day has to bring instead pushing yourself relentlessly to pursue some end goal. Why should people be made to feel bad because they haven't got anything they feel passionate about? Are you defective or somehow less complete as a person if you don't have anything you are passionate about? Are you missing out on the human experience?

Thoughts?