If my T ever literally yelled at me or snapped at me or anything of that nature, it would definitely trigger me to SI and I would immediately relate her to my mother in my mind. The odds that I would ever feel safe enough to open up to her would be about absolute zero.

She has, however, raised her voice for emphasis. Even though she's telling me nice things like "I KNOW you can do this", it still makes me slightly small and ashamed. But I don't want her to stop doing it.