I guess I'm looking at her message more in a negative way than I should. (I guess) I feel like if I were in her shoes and she sprung a surprise that she wanted to take up mountain climbing as a hobby, I wouldn't like it but I'll embrace her desire. I wouldn't start thinking ahead if she were to be seriously injured what would I do? Because as her husband I feel I should stand by her side no matter what she desires to do. Am I wrong for thinking like this?