She is on week 2 exactly of her meds. I know it can take up to 4 weeks for her to feel something in her body.

Well the cop thing is tricky. She hasn't gone into depth about how crazy her hyper sexuality has gotten or her fixation with cops. Not sure she wants to discuss that with her therapist. I feel that what I wrote on this forum he needs to read.
I agree it seems like it is a trigger for her, it scares me.

So even though you are medicated you still stay away from those clubs only because they were a trigger for you unmedicated? While medicated they can still cause a trigger regardless of medication correct?

Im trying to be a rock for her. Its just hard. The whole relationship dealing with these fears of her past and present with this whole "cop" thing is a nightmare. It used to be a million excuses and reasons for actions and simi lies about cops but now with the whole bipolar diagnosis it puts my fears into perspective and they are real in my eyes.

I just don't want to feel like i'm thinking this or my fears are unwarranted. Help from people that have been there and done that will help when I can bring this up to her so maybe we could talk this through with her therapist.