Thread: Is This Bad?
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Old Aug 15, 2013, 10:16 PM
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Originally Posted by WorkInProgress16 View Post
So I'm in a relationship and I love my boyfriend very much but is it bad if I briefly fantasize about this new cute guy at work?
I don't think it's bad. It's part of the human condition - looking at others, even if you're already in a relationship. In my opinion -- It's only bad if you've got a monogamous relationship, where you decide to cheat on your SO with this cute guy from work, or your boyfriend gets super jealous of your attentions towards this other guy, and you don't talk it out.

But if it's harmless fantasies, I don't see it being an issue. But that's me.
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