Some doctors also believe that vaginal births of the stillborn child is better because the brain can sometimes make the person believe that they didn't give birth with a c section with a stillborn because the person doesn't go through the labor and so on with a c section of a stillborn child. When people schedule for a c section they don't go through the labor and so on. its here the shot cut her open and remove child. But with vaginal birth the mother has to participate in the process.

It is due to this participation that the mother is able to start going through the natural grief cycle right away that she has lost a child instead of months down the road suddenly falling apart because of the numbness and the unrealness of not participating (giving birth) starts wearing off.

I know it sounds cruel that they are making her face the fact that her child is dead right from the beginning. but its kind of like any other problem for example the abuse we went though look where many of us are now because we separated ourselves from the pain and the acts of wha twas happening to us.

Its better that she is doing it this way and will be taking care of her pain and grief right from the beginning instead of months and years down the road.