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Originally Posted by growlycat
Can you ask the T to refer you to someone else for your own therapy? You can be blunt that you feel that T has a bias towards your son and that it would be best if you saw someone else.
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Thank you for your reply! I didn't phrase it well, it seems. I apologize. I don't think it is a bias toward my son. He and I both love my son. I just annoy the therapist sometimes. At times he is very, very complimentary but then he gets irritable with me like when he says my body language shows I am still bothered by things with my former husband. I have no idea how to stop that and I think that if he wouldn't bring it up, I'd be fine.
I have ADHD issues I still will work on but I feel capable enough. I don't want to go to any therapist now, but I feel pretty sure he will be offended since he thinks I need to check in with him every two weeks and then won't want me to bring my son to him. And my son likes him so much and has done so well with him that I just can't do that.
How do I say, "I think I'm good even if you don't and I'm sick of you getting irritated with me and then me doing the same to you--I could have stayed married if I enjoyed that--but please still see my son and me when I bring him." Like that?
Thank you for replying! I really appreciate it.