I really appreciate everyone's genuine feedback :-)
Of late I have settled myself down for a lot of self reflection. Throughout my life I have always been very focused, very scientific and have always pushed myself. For the first time I have stopped and now have started to really address all that I might I ignored in the past.
I have started to look for a therapist, and I do know couple of very good ones. However am approaching this a little slowly, feeling so hesitant every time I think about saying that I am worried about this or that thinking that may be an being thankless. yet I need to take this plunge :-)

I feel confused though, I mean this is what I think that if I can't handle someone crying it must be that I lack empathy. Yet I volunteer at this shelter house for girls and I absolutely love them, I always feel great working with them.
I never felt this way before like this tensed to have someone cry in my company, I used to do okay. But off late I really have sort of started to distance myself emotionally. Functioning more on intellectual level rather than emotional. I wasn't this way before, and hence the choice of career because it used to come naturally to me. But I guess the more I delve in it the more I realize that without learning how to share myself I can't share what someone else has to offer.