This is just my idea. As hard as this may be, I might let him clean it out. I would then cut off all access to money so it's not available for impulse shopping. When you have him clean it out agree on keeping the absolute necessities (make sure he understands you still have to be clothed) like, one pair of shoes, new clothes that do fit you, items you use Every day. If your husband is like mine and just dumps without checking, ask a trusted friend who will know if something is too valuable to give up without your telling them. Make sure you are no where near the house when this happens.