I talked to my old t about it once, but I was having way bigger problems at that time to fully address it. I feel the need to get a professional organizer and my t to come over, so we can go through all the things. lol. My husband has a lot of electronics that he hoards, but he says those things are useful, where as my things are not that useful. Personally, I think we should both work on it, but most of the time my husband just sits around a smokes pot and when he doesn't do anything, I don't do anything. I don't know why I feel the need for him to be doing something, so that I can do something. He usually does the laundry and yard work. I'm going to work on the kitchen this weekend, which is a mess, so hopefully I'll get something accomplished so he won't rage on me anymore.