I don't like him commenting on your "body language". That's intrusive and kind of bullying. It doesnt let you speak for yourself, literally. And that's what I would tell him is one of the reasons you are not going to see him anymore. The fact the he insists in you giving him is reasons is another one. I think you are entitled to be treated as kindly as your son is being treated. That's how my t treats me. I too have had enough of mean treatment. Enough to last a lifetime.