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Originally Posted by Confused213
Right, I certainly didn't like him and was afraid of him to some degree. In that sense, I see how spooning would be off.
So, my further question: should I even look into it or should I just leave everything where it's at? Should I try to see if anything else happened as my memories of those things is very choppy?
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I think that depends on what you wish to find out, really...as in, what are you going to do with the information once you get it, if you do? How will you process it? Are you READY to process it if there is more there? Are there other consequences you have considered if you find out more, and are you ready to handle those? Don't get me wrong, if I had thought there was something off in my childhood, I would want to know EVERYTHING, no matter how bad, because it's still in my unconscious somewhere and is most likely effecting my behaviors/issues today...but I can see why some people would choose to let it go, too.
