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Originally Posted by precious things
I could see where in the right moment if my T yelled, " g-d damn it precious I don't want you to effing die!". That might have some therapeutic resonance but if it was "g-d damn it precious, I'm busy with another client don't call me!" I would recoil and die in horror.
So, context, content and delivery are what matter for me.
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I understand that it is different for different people. But if a therapist yelled either of those at me - I would be all wtf? Either one is not useful to me. I can possibly understand the second one better than the first. For me, a main thrust is always it is my life - it is not the therapist's life - what a therapist wants or doesn't want is of no relevance or use to me.