Hi, I feel the same way about going to the OB/GYN. I don't think there is a woman out there that will tell you she LOVES going to get her hoo-ha dug in... For me I just try and picture somewhere different when I am being examined. I picture a beach or a lake and doing something else completely. This may not work for you but it might. If that doesn't help just express your feelings to the Dr. You could always find a woman physician to see you. That will help immensely. I hope that everything turns out ok for you.