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Originally Posted by _Mouse
Mona, codependency is not just about a need to control others have you not heard the say 'when a person drowns their life flashes before their eyes. When a codependent drowns, everyone's else's life flashes before their eyes. It stems from not having had your needs met as a child and learning its not ok to have needs so you become the caretaker of others.
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Haha, no I have never heard that Mouse!
I see what you are saying but co dependency is not what I am doing, I am not trying to rescue people or trying to save them by controlling them. I am just feeling their pain too much and bottling it up inside me. I need to find a healthy way to release it and my own pain.