It's hard to feel like you're on a team with someone when we're so used to being alone and dealing with everything solo. I guess it's something we both are needing to learn! 
Maybe once you get more comfortable with being backpack-less you could try that as a new goal: just smiling at strangers as you walk past them. Even just little smiles.
My sessions are 90mins too. I'm a talker though so I think it's helpful, because I tend to run around the topic a lot and it takes a while before I really say anything worthwhile.
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