I guess I'm looking at it more, not that they WANT to sleep with them; just that they wouldn't say no. Like it's on a scale of 1 to 10 - you and I are putting it at opposite ends of possibility. If I talk to someone, the chance is 1 we would sleep together. If your husband talks to someone, it feels like the chance is 10 that he would sleep with her? That just hasn't been my experience. I haven't really wanted the men I talked to, like at work. They were pretty annoying! So no chance. But talking - yeah, that's okay. But ive usually been the single woman. So I get your point.

Eta: sorry, kinda hijacking there. Wip16, you told him you had a bf, so what happens is up to you. Ive had single friends and coupled friends, so I personally dont see the problem.