Hi.
I have the same problem with my hair. So annoying. I agree withi you about how it looks like we don't care, even when we do. my stylist said there were products that you can put on your hair (other than gel) that will keep the frizies down. I had some stuff at home, but it isn't workiing so I need to ask hm next time i go in to get my hair cut. You are not the only one who suffers from this.