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Old Aug 17, 2013, 03:33 PM
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Last night my guy *insert title here* and I were texting about hanging out. He had his sister over at his house and I had my parents at my house, so he brought up doing things in the car.

He said we could try kinky stuff or fingering, "eating out", bj's...and talking about it totally turned me off.

This makes me feel confused. I want to do things with him, but doing things in the car just wasn't part of "the plan." My plan is to have intercourse with him in a bed first, and experiment in a bed first. I feel like I am wasting opportunities to do things because I'd rather have it a certain way. Plus, I didn't want to risk getting caught, and I want to do things in an environment where there's no chance of getting caught.

Am I being unrealistic? Should I go do things in the car with him or should I wait until we are in a bed where we can't get caught?