My T has also raised his voice at me and cursed at me, but in a good way, if that makes sense. As in I was saying something that showed how seriously distorted my thinking and perception of myself is, and he was trying to get me to see that what I was saying was not reality. At some point, he said, "No, you are just so ****ing WRONG, MKAC." I sat there for a second and started laughing. So, it was yelling and cursing that came from a place of caring about me and really wanting me to see that I am not as horrible as I think I am.