I think MKAR & MTJ make a good point. I also think that the T wasn't angry at them. I'm more comfortable iwth MKAC than MTJ, but I can't argue with success. I can remember a similar time with a T who I liked, and I felt like he liked me, rolling his eyes at me and saying something like "come on now." But it was said with acceptance and caring, not anger and judgment (well, maybe a tiny bit of judgment, but with acceptance) I imagine that they both know that the T cared about them. They weren't yelling in anger, they were yelling because they cared.
Hadn't thought about it, but maybe it's not the yelling that's the issue. At least for me, the issue is whether the T is angry at me. If they are, they are letting their stuff into MY session. It doesn't sound like that is what MKAC & MTJ's Ts were doing. I'm not sure
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