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Originally Posted by DrSkipper
Last night my guy *insert title here* and I were texting about hanging out. He had his sister over at his house and I had my parents at my house, so he brought up doing things in the car.
He said we could try kinky stuff or fingering, "eating out", bj's...and talking about it totally turned me off.
This makes me feel confused. I want to do things with him, but doing things in the car just wasn't part of "the plan." My plan is to have intercourse with him in a bed first, and experiment in a bed first. I feel like I am wasting opportunities to do things because I'd rather have it a certain way. Plus, I didn't want to risk getting caught, and I want to do things in an environment where there's no chance of getting caught.
Am I being unrealistic? Should I go do things in the car with him or should I wait until we are in a bed where we can't get caught?
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I do not think you are being unrealistic at all. Wanting your first time to be in a bed is very normal actually. I would insist that you have a set of standards and you are sticking to them. I think if you stick to it and hold boundaries, the experience will be more exciting and memorable in a positive way. I hope your bf understands and wants the experience to be beautiful too. This would show his respect for you which adds to the sexual experience and makes it even more pleasurable.
