It's great that you are watching out for your mom. I do the same thing with mine.
I have paranoid schizophrenia and it seems my mom is getting paranoid being around me. I have been trying to keep silent about my paranoid ideas when I am around her.
I help her as much as I can. Sometimes I am not so helpful, and that makes her mad.

I really believe my mom is bipolar. She has up's and down's every day. I tried to convince her to see a pdoc. She will not have anything to do with it. I don't know what else to do. I'm sorry if I have not been much help to you. All I can say is to grow with the changes.Even if it seems difficult.

Sincerely,

Piraeus