This is certainly a tough one. When is the right time to disclose the fact that I am taking 4 different meds for bi-polar condition to a new boyfriend? Some people say, "oh, no big deal!" Others, the less savvy, educated ones get freaked out when they hear the mention of psychiatric meds. Frankly, I need some feedback for you all. Know if I am going to be intimate with the boyfriend, do I tell him before or not until I am comfortable? This has left me feeling very uneasy.