I agree garnier is the best for anti-friz (I use it although my hair isn't that frizzy) but my son absolutely has your hair! Occasionally, if he's in the mood he uses a flat iron and brush and his gf will often do it for him. Mostly, he just wears it long (in a pony tail or not)..he's in a band so he wants the look and trust me, he gets plenty of positive attention! (((hugs)))