Watch his actions!!! Don't listen to his words... No parent is ever financially ready for children. If his brewery fails will he not be able to support you and his kids some other way? Money is there if you want it. Thats a poor excuse! I married my high school sweet heart because I got her pregnant when we were 17 and 18. I made $5 an hour and we made it on a lot of Kool Aid and Hot Dogs. Best wishes to you