This guy Jake works for my dad's construction company and I am worried he might be weirdly jealous or if I am over reacting. Here are a couple of situations, thanks for reading!

Jake is always questioning my where abouts, but it's funny cause he is showing little to no interest in me, but he is always concerned where I am though. In the beginning he texted me too much and called me, but I kept rejecting him on him taking me out, and he stopped texting me and calling me. I felt bad cause I liked him, but since he works for my dad, I thought that would be a awkward situation.

Well one day my mom said I was with my friend Erica, and Jake said "Why is she with Erica?" Then my dad took me, Jake, and my brother to a baseball game, and I came home early, but Jake said in a stern voice "Where were you?" Granted he was kinda drunk but still. Then my dad's worker Ron was there and Ron is my dad's age so he is fatherly, and he complimented me and said "Sara you look nice, and you smell nice too!" lol! But Jake said "Eww Sara Ron is smelling you!" Then while Ron was there, Jake said "Take some pics of me and Sara" and he was gripping me tightly, like grabbing at my waist, and was like holding onto to me for dear life he was all over me, and I am thinking is it because Ron complimented me? So I was creeped out.

My mom had to pick him up cause his car broke down, and my mom expressed to him that she was mad at me for coming home late last night from a friend's house which was also a guy. And my said that Jake started to ask her a bunch of questions like "What's his name?" "Ben who?" "Is he short?" and so on. My mom said he was saying it so fast, that she couldn't respond. I was sleeping in the living room, and Jake came over and tapped my head and said "Where were you?" He repeated himself, and of course I didn't answer him, and he tried to whip my blanket off of me, and he was taking pics of me, and at this point I am really mad, haha! He was laughing and thought it was funny, but I was creeped out, then he said "Who's **** were you sucking?" My parents didn't hear this, and they walked in when he was taking pics of me, so they are kinda oblivious to what is happening.

My mom is weirded out by him but I didn't tell her what he did. He also was asking my dad to switch to Tmobile lol! He said he wanted all of us on his plan, and now I figured out why he wanted that, cause he told my mom that you can track anyone's location that is on that plan, so if we were all on Jake's plan he could track any of us at any given time, unless I am looking to much into it.

Sorry for that boring story, but also he would say "I love you" alot to me, granted he was drunk when he said this, but he hasn't said in like 2 months, but he did alot before. Like I said he did stop texting and calling me, but then he'll do this kind of stuff, and it confuses me. He did call me a week ago drunk and said he wanted me to meet his baby, and I am not close enough to him to meet his baby, so I was weirded out by that.

Am I looking into this? or is this harmless? If he was truly obsessed I would think he would non stop call me or text me, but then again I don't know if some stalkers are shrewd enough to like know their boundries in a way. Is this healthy jealousy? Or not? Thank you so much!