Hi bmwenthusiast, I can really appreciate your concern for Mom, and also really like the comments made to you by Piraeus and Jenny29. And yes, for many folks, mid-life brings its own unique challenges, and some don't sail thru it quite as smoothly. I'd say continue to watch her, support her, help her and yourself, consult professionals if need be, friends and other fam if desirable, and consider comments on the board. Explore some of the material here on PC that may be relevant as you have time. I wish you and your Mom the best! From one Mom whose children have worried about her before!!!!