Skipper, It is your body and your experience, and it will be your life long memory. You should make it be what you want it to be. My first time was with a guy I loved very much, and he suggested we use a friends bed room. We did oral, and when he wanted to go all the way, I told him I couldn't because he had been using pot all evening. I am not opposed to pot, but I didn't want my first time to be with a person who was stoned. He waited and took me to his house 2 weekends later. He was warm and tender and all went well. 3 weeks later I caught him in the act with another girl. But the fact remains the same. I had enough dignity to say how I wanted things to be, things were picture perfect, and I have no regrets in regards to how I lost my virginity and who I lost it to. Turns out the girl I caught him with, he got pregnant. So I am quite happy it was not me. In defense of his character, he married the girl and they are still married and have 4 more children.

There is always the hotel option. $50.00 for a room or $50.00 for a meal. Have a picnic in the floor and then have fun. Enjoy the evening in the floor or on the bed. Money well spent.

Something to think about with getting a room though, I have run into this issue. My H and I used to get a room before we were married, and in hind sight getting a room made me feel cheep. I was not important enough to take home. It made me feel like a *****. Just sayin, that may not be the case with you but it is/was with me.