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Originally Posted by xzavier1234
 I'm in a long distance relationship with my 6 month long boyfriend. He was PERFECT. and i mean perfect. he was a total gentelman. I trusted him (and him being the first guy i trusted), and the other day I couldnt sleep so i was going to use his ipod to play games because he was asleep. I unlocked his ipod and facebook messages came up. Remember I wouldnt snoop I TRUSTED him completely. Well what I read was heartbreaking. He was talking to his ex about how they were once engaged and she had asked if they would never have broken up if they would be engaged right now. he said "yes definitly". and then i read further into it. he had said he wanted to kiss her and then found out behind my back he got her a job at his work when he had told me he got a "good friend" a job. and then he was also hanging out with her behind my back. I confronted him and we have had a mess of problems. I dont know what to do or say. he lives two hours away and we have only been in a long distance thing for a little over two weeks. he says he is going to drop her and fight for my trust back. but i don't know D': 
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Xzavier,
It really S*CKS to see those unexpected emails or texts. BTDT. How long was your BF w/ his ex?? Why did they break up? I was dating domeone for a long, long time..he bought an enagagement ring, we planned the wedding...he never asked me to marry him...he cheated on me & fell ib love w. someone else...He said he would have never done this if we had been engaged...
I do not like the fact he avoided the COMPLETE truth by saying he got a freind a job. To me it is a red flag, but I am much older than you.
Good Luck.