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Originally Posted by ThisIsTough
Bare with me if this is the wrong forum, and if so, please move it.
I'll say right now, this problem has dated back to probably since I was in High School, which would be six years ago. Obviously I've coped with it, but I'm just wondering why and how I can get this feeling to stop.
Pretty much I feel guilty after the fact of masturbating. When in the process, I don't mind at all, but afterwards like I said, I do, and in most cases makes me just not want to go out and do anything or enjoy fun things. It's like I punish myself for doing the act. I'll try and go weeks without doing it for a while, but then I have the urge and then...it happens.
How can I shake this sort of thing off? I do see a therapist, and I'm sure I could bring this up to him too...eventually, but I figured I'd talk about it here first.
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Having an orgasm is a big release of energy, especially if you've waited days or weeks or months for release. Hence, the feeling of let down afterwards.
Your need is for companionship and it would help a lot if you could share your orgasms with someone who means a lot to you and vice versa. That takes some planning. Sounds like you need to do more socially and get experience sexuality and sensuality with someone else. Perhaps that's what your feeling of disappointment is - your innate need for love speaking to you saying that masturbation is not enough to meet your sexual needs.