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Originally Posted by lynn P.
I'm sorry you feel so frustrated and conflicted ((unhappyguy)). IMO its better to accept the fact you're gay since you can't change it but realize this isn't easy for you. There has to be some men who also don't fit into the typical lifestyle and want a simple life too. Wish there was a solution for you.
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Sadly, it's much more complicated than accepting myself. I was recently diagnosed with ADHD which makes making friends difficult. (I'm the non-hyper kind.) The PTSD I suffer from - and apparently had since childhood - makes it difficult to trust others. The severe lack of nurturing as a child (from mom) combined with parental neglect (from dad) make relationships unappealing. So, it's a lot more than being gay. I used to try. Not anymore.