I did see her, and funny thing - she cut hers differently! lol It's still similar, but hers is a lot shorter than mine and has thick bangs (while mine are wispy and side swept) I did mention getting it cut, and that the stylist just kinda did her thing.... she said "Oh, sweet!" and that's it.

I didn't expect her to compliment me or anything, she never does...although I do admit that a simple "your hair looks nice" or something would have been nice. I know for a fact she never would have said a thing about it if I hadn't. I also wanted to compliment hers , but being as though she didn't say anything about mine, I thought it would have made her uncomfortable.

What do you think that is? A boundary thing? Like she wants to be absolutely sure that she doesn't say anything that could be taken as even remotely inappropriate? A "newbie T" thing maybe?

Or maybe she thinks that because I have feelings for her I might take her compliment to mean something more? (which I wouldn't, although the feelings are there...I think I'm quite grounded about the situation)

hmmpphh.