I was floored yesterday when I did a search for women seeking women in my area on OK Cupid, out of sheer curiosity. I wanted to see what they look like, because I suspected that they look just the way hetero women look. Indeed - the ones that popped up in search were all bi rather than lesbian and indeed there is nothing that says "I am bi" in their looks.

But what floored me that 2 out of 5 women whose profiles I visited answered the question about what people notice first when they meet those women with:

"My breasts".

And both have fairly large breasts indeed, and one of them is 46 and says that her breasts look amazing considering how old they are. But she does not list children. I thought that being 46, unless you have been pregnant several times, does not do that much damage to breasts to post something like this.

I was weirded out. As in "is that for real?".