Sundance,
I completely understand how you feel. Getting "it" done can be very stressful and draining. I refuse to have a male gyno (my mom thinks I am insane because of it) and even after my appointment I cannot let my boyfriend touch me for days.

Stay strong honey,
Jessica

<font color=blue> You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again. </font color=blue>