Valex....I think 30 is so young, and much too young to give up on having a happy relationship. My attitude and stance has much to do with my age of 56, my previous bad experiences since my divorce of 8 years ago, and the need to center myself emotionally. I do not recommend adopting this attitude to anyone, either those my age or those older or younger. It's just where I am at this time.
Patty