I don't tell my new boyfriends that I am on medication or not or even that I am in therapy and for what. Just starting out that is none of their business who is to say if just starting out that the two of us will become close enough to remain together indefinately. so I figure for me why complicate things just injoy the time me and that boyfrined have together and later on down the road if it turns out we are going to be together and living in the same home then yea it will be time enough to say whether or not I am on medication.
the most I ever say to a guy when just starting out is when the guy is starting to aim for the bed so to speak and if Im not ready for that I tell him that I am a survivor of child sexual abuse so I need to take my time.
In My Opinion just starting out guys don't need my life history including my medication needs. I don't come right out and say upon just getting to know someone - I have cancer and a hereditary desease and I will eventually die of them. So why should I with someone new say - Im on this or that medication and have this mental disorder and this is what I do when bla bla bla.
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