I'm going through something similar. My husband is wealthy so not jealous of other peoples possessions, but like other post worships his money. It's more important that anything else. He never says our or we; it's always my mine and I. Like another post he does exactly what he likes when he likes and I'm sure he feels I should be grateful that he can provide me with the lifestyle we enjoy. Of course it's a lifestyle he wants. I just want the simple things from my new marriage, love, kindness, feel valued, feel appreciated and not just his latest possession. I want to share my thoughts and feeling, have a best friend, know there's someone there for me etc. In fact, when I think about it, he treats his new car and boat with more respect! Feeling very sad, lonely and dare I say it bullied.