Hi, Tymber ... I'm new to the community, so feel free to take or leave what I say since I don't know you. I, too, went through a divorce 20 years ago. During that time, one of the lessons I learned was to pray for the RIGHT thing to happen ... the thing best for all involved ... not a certain thing ... because unbeknownst to us at the time, that certain thing could be the worse thing.

I let Spirit decide what's best for me, because I can be a real idiot about that at times...................
Blessings to you---
Bandia