My husband and I are going out tonight. I am nervous and I'm looking for excuses not to go... I'm avoiding conflict! (that seems to be my defense mechanism).

I have to stay put and be strong and ready for what ever is coming. I know he wants to talk, and I was ready this morning but as the day goes by I'm getting a little nervous. I still hope for a good outcome but I am scare.... Will I handle it right? and What is the right way of handling it? Should I make the first move? I am sooo concern about doing the right thing I cannot even think.

Anyway, thanks for listening.

gab