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Old Aug 21, 2013, 02:56 AM
Arljo Arljo is offline
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I really need to talk to someone! My husband of 25 years says he is a sex addict. I have known of a 3 affairs that he has had over the years. But now have found out more and found out about "massages" and visits to prostitutes. He has claimed addiction in the past and we would try to work through it and go to church more. He wanted to work through it on his own. "To prove he could beat it". There is a new happening. He has actually started therapy (has gone for just over a month now). He says that he is finding out that this addiction has been an issue since his teen years. He seems so very sad and cries all the time and says he doubts everything about himself. I get so emotional when he gets like this and tell him that I will support him and help him and I won't leave him. And then reality sets in. He has been so clingy, always wanting me around, texting me from work all day long. If he is truly having this much of an emotional time, I honestly don't think I am strong enough (emotionally) to help him. I obviously have issues of my own to work through. I have major depressive disorder and anxiety. I am worried about his well-being if I am not supportive. UGH! I am so lost and confused. Any advice would be great.
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