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Originally Posted by Arljo
1) He wanted to work through it on his own. "To prove he could beat it". There is a new happening. He has actually started therapy (has gone for just over a month now).
2) He has been so clingy, always wanting me around, texting me from work all day long. If he is truly having this much of an emotional time, I honestly don't think I am strong enough (emotionally) to help him. I obviously have issues of my own to work through. I have major depressive disorder and anxiety. I am worried about his well-being if I am not supportive. UGH! I am so lost and confused. Any advice would be great.
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Either her sticks to his promise to work though it on his own, OR, he texts you every minute and burdens you (and you already have major depression and anxiety so you do not need MORE problems - you already have enough) with his issues.
Either or - he is being inconsistent. either or - either he works through it on his own, or he seeks unreasonable amount of support from you.
right now he is trying to have it both ways.