Hello, I am new to this forum. I am an attractive 49 yr old and my boyfriend is 59. Our biggest issue is his constant porn use. I even moved out and left him over it, because he kept lying about it. I even went to far as to put a keylogger software on his computer. The problem is I see everything he is doing. He is also watching teen porn - a lot of it. Now, honestly, our sex life is great (3-4 times per week after two years). But he even had the gumption to tell me that if I took care of him more this wouldn't happen.

We have talked about getting back together, because I really love him, I am tossing this around in my mind. I think porn use is totally inappropriate and has no place in a loving and honest relationship (which is what he says he wants). He has practically begged me to come back - but he won't give up the porn - ever. I have read so many times how it's normal for men to watch porn. What about the women in the relationships? It's not all about us just being insecure. He is 59 for gods sake....looking at 18 yr old girls and watching videos? So, the dumb question....is he somewhat mentally ill and should I move on?